By Admin ::

2021-02-18 ::

New Way Real Estate


Are you ready to take the next step in your relationship and buy your first home as a couple? If such a project appears very exciting on paper, it generally also comes with its share of hoops and hurdles. No matter the intensity and depth of the love you share, reality can be slightly less glamorous than what you might have expected.

Indeed, when buying a home with a partner, it isn't all rainbows and unicorns. You will need to prepare yourselves for a few complicated, heated conversations, and be ready to compromise. You will also need to anticipate the worst that could happen (like unexpected job loss or a change in your financial situation). In other words, to successfully buy a home as a couple, the key is to communicate and anticipate.

To help you find your new love nest and make sure things run as smoothly as possible, we put together these five steps to buy a home as a couple:

·         Set a Budget

·         Know what you want

·         House hunt with a plan


Set a Budget:

Before you even discuss what your dream house might look like, you need to figure out what you can afford. How much deposit have you saved? How much can you borrow from the bank and under what conditions? Can you benefit from grants like the first home loan deposit scheme?

When doing the calculations and writing your figures down, try to be realistic or even conservative. The aim is to come up with a budget that will allow you to enjoy the same lifestyle, but without putting too much mortgage pressure on your shoulders, and on your relationship. A general rule is to make sure that repayments won't exceed 28-30% of your take-home pay.

A common mistake is to forget the hidden cost that come with the purchase of a home, such as loan fees, insurance, stamp duty, etc. Don't hesitate to seek professional advice to make sure your budget is comprehensive and accurate. An accountant or a financial advisor will be able to set up a plan and structure a budget that will suit your situation and desired outcome. 


Know What You Want:

Now that you have a set budget and, therefore, a better idea of what you can afford, the fun part can begin. But before you start hunting for the house of your dreams, you will need to know and agree on what exactly you are looking for. Couples often believe they are on the same page but then realize once they start the visits that this is far from being the case.

To avoid unnecessary tension, try to answer all the questions you can think of when looking for a home. For example:

  • What areas are we happy to target?

  • How far from work can it be?

  • How many bedrooms do we need?

  • Are we ready to dedicate some time and effort to renovate or do we need a place ready to move in?

  • Are we happy to start small and upsize later if required?

A good way to get a better idea of what each one expects is to both write down your list of "must-haves" and "good-to-haves". Also, make a list of any potential deal-breakers. For example, you might not want a ground floor; you can't be more than 10 minutes walk from a bus or train stop; there can't be too much traffic at night, etc.

Once your key features are on paper, compare your lists and be ready to compromise. You might realise that your definition of a "dream house" is far from what your partner envisions. Therefore, you both may need to sacrifice some of the features listed in your respective wishlists. Together, determine what is mandatory and what would be great to have.

A real estate agent can help you with the task of defining your dream house, while making sure that what you wish for is realistic, both in terms of features or budget. He/she can also act as a mediator to help you get on the same page. However, even with some help, it might take you a few visits before really figuring out what you are looking for.


House Hunt with a Plan:


House hunting can be as exciting as it can be depressing. Competition can be harsh, making finding and securing your dream home a real challenge. So be ready to embark on an emotional roller-coaster.

But that's not it. More than likely, it will take you a few tries before you find a home for which you might think about making an offer. For this reason, house hunting can also become very time-consuming. This is why you need to have a precise plan and stick to it.

When doing your research, set up alerts on real estate apps and websites, and register your interest with your real estate agent to be notified when something meeting your criteria comes up on the market. You will save some precious time and energy by narrowing down your selection as much as you can. Focus on homes that meet all your must-haves and pay attention to your deal-breakers, no matter how great the place might seem otherwise.

Every time you inspect a new place, take notes, photos and videos. Write down the pros and cons and set a benchmark. Always compare the last home you visited with your "favourite one so far", and try to keep a cool head when debriefing. It doesn't mean you can't have a crush on a place and trust your guts if you believe you found THE one. On the contrary, following these pieces of advice should only give you more clarity and confirm your feeling about your potential future home.

No matter the type of sale, do not hesitate to discuss your strategy and rely on your local real estate agent to help you secure the house of your dreams.